Ask The Experts: 8 Simple Tips for a Stronger Marriage

A happy and strong marriage involves hard work, commitment, and unwavering patience. Whether you’re newlyweds or have been married for a decade, here are eight tips to help strengthen your marriage.

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Improve communication

Communication plays an essential role in the success of any marriage. To keep your relationship healthy and strong, you must always keep your lines of communication open. Be mindful of your words when conversing, and refrain from belittling each other. Instead of assuming what your partner is thinking, take a proactive stance and initiate the conversation. It is more constructive to sort issues out, no matter how painful they may be, than avoid the topic altogether.

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Address conflict constructively

Conflict and tension are normal and sometimes necessary factors in any relationship. However, if not handled properly, they can slowly destroy and compromise the sanctity of your marriage. It is essential you learn how to work out your issues efficiently and positively. Manage your emotions during a heated argument and know when to step back. Avoid repeating old mistakes, and remember to put your ego in the backseat. Instead of blaming each other, focus on resolving the conflict and be ready to compromise.

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Give each other space

No matter how deeply in love you are with each other, you must provide your spouse the space they need. Encourage them to explore their interests and reconnect with old friends. Even if you’re not fond of being apart, you must respect their needs and learn to let go. Maintaining and respecting each other’s individuality is essential for your marriage’s success.

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Set healthy boundaries

Setting clear and healthy boundaries is vital for your marriage to work. Identify your deal breakers early on and establish healthy rules that suit your relationship. Always adhere to these rules and adjust them as necessary. Setting relationship boundaries can prevent unnecessary conflicts that can significantly damage your marriage.

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Spend time often

For your marriage to last, you must prioritize spending time with each other. Make sure to have regular date nights, even for a few hours. It can be as simple as walking around the neighbourhood, going on a hike, driving without the kids, cooking together, or watching a romantic movie at home.

Remove all possible distractions and focus your whole attention on your spouse. Spending quality time with your significant other can help you better understand the relationship areas you need to work on for your marriage to grow.

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Keep things private

While it may be tempting to ask for support from loved ones after an argument with your spouse, involving others can only worsen matters. Keep your issues private and avoid revealing sensitive marriage information to trusted third parties. However, if you feel that you’re unable to fix your differences on your own and want your marriage to last, don’t be afraid to seek help from professionals such as relationship coaches or sophisticated, high-end divorce attorneys.

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Boost marital intimacy 

Marital intimacy goes beyond sexual endeavours, as a simple non-sexual touch can do wonders in your relationship. Know when your significant other needs physical and emotional intimacy. Demonstrate physical affection constantly, but avoid forcing it if your spouse is uncomfortable.

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Learn to forgive 

Forgiveness is a complex yet essential aspect of a successful and strong marriage. Whether your spouse’s mistake was made intentionally or otherwise, you must learn to embrace them and move on. Refrain from holding grudges and do not bring up old conflicts during arguments.

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Embracing each other’s shortcomings and focusing on the positives is necessary for a long-lasting marriage. Take note of these tips and remember to constantly deal with your issues as a team.

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