Personalisation is everything when it comes to planning a wedding. More than ever, couples are tossing out the rulebook and embracing what feels right for them, whether that’s a non-traditional venue or ceremony scripts that break the mould. In recent years, we’ve seen a real shift toward the bold, playful, and delightfully unexpected. And honestly? We’re here for it.

Your wedding day is more than just a celebration, it’s a story. And the best way to tell that story is through thoughtful, personal details that reflect who you are as a couple. Sure, you’ve got the big decisions to make, but it’s often the unique touches your guests will remember most.
So if you’re looking to bring a bit more “you” into your day, here are some creative and unexpected ways to personalise your wedding!

Unexpected Ways to Personalise your Wedding Day

photo by Him & Her Photography – full wedding here 

Start with your venue

Your venue sets the tone for the entire day, so it’s the perfect place to kick off the personal touches. Think beyond the classic hotel ballroom or stately home.

Natalia Zuk, Owner of Lilac Studios, notes, “While couples often choose to personalize table décor or welcome table, they can think even bigger, and start with booking a venue that reflects them and allows for unique solutions. I spoke to a couple who are huge movie fans, and they rented a venue that used to be a theatre. It allowed them to create unique wedding experiences from the very start until the end of the night: from the red carpet receiving line with flash photography, to taking pictures in front of old movie posters and inside an old-style ticket window.”

Don’t be afraid to choose a space that speaks to who you are, even if it’s not what’s traditionally expected. Your venue should feel like an extension of your story, not just a pretty backdrop!

photo by Chris Blackledge Photography – full wedding here 

Bring in your favourite scents

This one’s a bit unexpected, but trust us. The right fragrance can instantly transport you back to a moment in time, which makes it a lovely way to build memories into your wedding day.

“Scent is such a powerful memory trigger, and most people don’t think about it,” shares Craig Peterman, Owner, Photographer, & Videographer at Craig Peterman Photography & Videography. “I’ve had couples use a specific candle or essential oil while getting ready and then save it to relight on anniversaries. It’s subtle, but the emotional connection that comes with it is real. Years later, that same smell can take you right back to the moment.”

Some couples even gift mini candles or room sprays to guests, so the scent becomes part of the shared experience. Months (or years) down the line, catching that same fragrance again will bring every happy moment rushing back.

photo by Chandra Delite Photography. – full wedding here 

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