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26
Feb
2013
In January I was lucky enough to attended the Wedding Ideas Awards in London. It was a fantastic night, and I got to meet so many amazing people. As well as the awards honoring many wonderful wedding suppliers in the business, they also gave out a Bride of the year award. It was at this point in the night that the mood changed and everything became a bit more real.
Why? because the winner Naomi Thomas made us all realise how lucky we are and how sometimes we take life for granted. As I sat listening to her acceptance speech with tears rolling down my face I knew I had to tell her story, I had to do something to let you all know how marvelous and wonderful this lady is, and why she was a clear winner for the award that night.
You see Naomi has Secondary Breast Cancer and has no idea how long her life will be. However, even though she lives in the shadow of her own mortality she spends her days working for other terminally ill brides making sure they have the wedding that they have dreamed of before their time runs out.
So today i’d like to tell you more about Naomi, her story and more about this amazing charity that she has set up.
In The years leading up to the launch of The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation, Naomi Thomas had been through more than most people contend with their entire lives.
At thirty years old Naomi is a happily married, mum of one and settled in the beautiful Somerset town of Wellington, with her new husband, Graham. However, one thing you wouldn’t know about Naomi if you saw her in the street is that she is living with Secondary Breast Cancer, a disease which has transformed her life and the lives of others, in so many ways.
With such a warming character, burning passion to succeed & an enjoyment for planning things, in 2005 she began working as a self employed Wedding Planner across the county of Devon. Life was going swimmingly, it seemed.
It was unquestionable; Naomi loved her job and flourished in helping brides-to-be with all the arrangements for their big day. But after only four years pursuing her dream career and only three months with her fiancé Graham, Naomi’s world was turned upside down as she was given the devastating news that she had Breast Cancer. She was only 26. Naomi admitted it was a diagnosis that she never thought she would hear.
Three years on and the issue is still as important as ever before; around 9,000 women under the age of 50 are diagnosed with breast cancer every year with the other eighty percent effecting women over the age of 50, with the risks increasing with age.
But this news was just the beginning of a heartbreaking journey, for not only Naomi, but everyone close to her. After a gruelling series of treatments including an operation, chemotherapy followed by radiotherapy, Naomi had hoped she had beaten the disease and looked to the future with Graham.
Both were delighted when in early 2010, aged 27, Naomi discovered she was pregnant and expecting their first child. Naomi explained how she felt very lucky to be carrying a baby, especially knowing chemotherapy can more often than not affect fertility in women.
Unfortunately, this excitement soon turned to devastation as only six days after her newborn son, Devon, came into the world in September 2010 Naomi was rushed back into hospital with a serious MRSA infection. It was during this time that doctors delivered the massive blow that the cancer had spread and that her back had broken in three places due to her bones being eaten away by cancer. Despite everything, Naomi soon had come to terms with the fact she now had incurable Secondary Breast Cancer.
It soon became apparent that this news came as an even bigger shock to everyone, especially after the initial hope that the treatment had worked. Defiantly, Naomi bravely endured further treatment, only for surgeons to decide against operating on the tumour on her spine for various reasons.
Despite Naomi struggling to cope with her recent diagnosis, looking after a newborn and dealing with her shocking news she bravely decided to try to focus on the future with her new young family.
Having had to cancel their wedding day due to the financial impact cancer has on people going through it Naomi decided to arrange a charity event in the town she grew up in, Sidmouth, Devon to lift her spirits. Naomi’s extraordinary story and the way the disease impacted her as a young woman soon caught the attention of local Wedding Planner Sam Williams. Unknown to Naomi, this event was to signal the first step towards her becoming the beaming Mrs Thomas, as she is today.
Through the enormous generosity of Sam, the local community and from complete strangers, a dream wedding was arranged with donations from wedding suppliers on 6th June 2012, Naomi and Graham eventually tied the knot in a beautiful ceremony at St Audries Park, Somerset.
Determined to put her experiences to positive use, Naomi set about ways to help others enjoy the wedding day of their dreams, just as Sam and her event planning business Perfectly Planned Events had enabled her to.
So, in early 2012, with this passion and determination right at the centre of what she wanted to achieve, The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation was born.
One thing Naomi thinks about a great deal is how, that despite the devastating impact cancer has on so many people’s lives, ‘it is magical how cancer brings people closer together and it is this fact which inspired me to help others in this way.’
The foundation is going from strength to strength and with the support and generosity of not only suppliers and businesses, but individual fundraising efforts, the project is really coming into its own. ‘It’s going really well and I cannot wait for our new fundraising teams in each county in the UK to be in full swing and generating vital funds so we can continue the great work we do.’
Still, as Naomi explains, ‘Of course, we need more money to develop the organisation and such funding is vital for the foundation to continue in its quest to ensure people can enjoy their perfect wedding day, without the stress, uncertainty and financial burden that cancer inevitably brings to families’.
Although Naomi now has to consume a concoction of hormonal drugs to force her into premature menopause and prolong her life as long as possible, she explains that her plans for the future of The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation are simple. Naomi said she wants
If you are a supplier, individual or business and can offer your services for free or at a reduced rate, The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation would love to hear from you.
Whatever your niche or specialism, with your help you will be supporting this inspirational organisation, be it through cake decoration, wedding dress supplies, food distribution, venue hire, stationery, floristry or car hire. Any wedding products, services or support are always welcome and the foundation continually searches for enthusiastic people to generate vital funds too; through donation, sponsorship or fundraising.
Support this fantastic organisation today and spread the word about their inspirational and dedicated mission with everyone you know. As the old saying goes, one good deed deserves another.
The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation
Wellington, Somerset
www.weddingwishingwellfoundation.org
www.weddingwishingwell.org.uk/blog
[email protected]
What a fantastic organisation.. xx
I got married in St.Audries…Such an amazing venue!!!
And what an incredible woman Naomi is. Such an inspiration to us all.
I’d be honoured to offer my help for such a great organisation.
Awww what a bittersweet story and what a lovely organisation.
Given what Naomi went through, she might not exactly get that “happily ever after ending.” However, I think it was really nice that the people got together to give her that dream wedding. I agree with Jaye, it is a bittersweet story.
What a fantastic organisation.. really touched my heart!
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