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13
Jul
2026
By Boho
There’s a set of unwritten rules that come with wedding planning, and most couples absorb them without questioning where they came from. Something old, something new, a big first dance, a bouquet toss. For a long time, couples have gone along with traditions like these because it’s what’s always been done.
However, that’s changing, and it’s a lovely shift to see. Couples are giving themselves permission to ask whether a tradition reflects them before deciding to include it, and if it doesn’t, they’re letting it go without a second thought. Here’s a look at some of the wedding “rules” couples are happily leaving behind in 2026, so they can make room for something that feels more like them.
“Rules” Couples Are Happily Ignoring in 2026
photo by Lucy Davis – full shoot here
Having a traditional ceremony
A wedding ceremony tends to follow a fairly predictable format, right down to the processional. The bride gets her moment walking down the aisle to a special song, and everyone else falls into place around her. It’s a nice tradition, but one that’s starting to seem outdated for couples who want the ceremony to reflect both of them equally.
Ariana Straznicky-Packer, Founder & Lead Violinist at Ariana Strings, notes, “The idea that only the bride gets a special song to walk down the aisle to has completely changed. These days, couples are embracing personalized ceremonies, which can also give the groom his own grand entrance song. Same-sex couples are also reimagining the processional entirely, with some choosing to walk in together while others divide the processional in ways that best reflect their relationship. Some couples even squeeze in mash-ups or individual songs for the ring bearers and flower children.”
Rather than defaulting to whatever’s traditionally expected, couples are thinking through what’s right for how they’re entering this new chapter. The ceremony is one of the most personal parts of the day, so it makes sense that more people are shaping it to reflect who they are.
photo by Jessi Casara Photography – full wedding here
10
Jul
2026
By Boho
Happy Friday everyone! I hope you have had a good week and if you are in the UK I hope you have survived yet another heat wave! It sure is Hot! We are currently in the process of moving, half out stuff went yesterday and the big move date is Monday! So this weekend we will be finishing off the last bits of packing and giving the house a good old clean, all very exciting but also pretty stressful! To finish off the week I have this gorgeous Terracotta wedding from Yorkshire Wedding Photographer Fabio Photography. Chelsee and Ryan stated quite clearly ‘We are planning a marriage more than we are planning a wedding’ and what a wedding they planned. They went for a terracotta colour scheme which made the whole day, warm, layered and full of rustic touches. Their dog Otis also played a very integral part to the day, not only by being there but being present in a lot of the theming and decoration. A fabulous day fro a fabulous couple.
Our wedding was a celebration of love, laughter, and the joy of bringing together all the people who have shaped our story. Filled with natural light, meaningful details, and unforgettable moments, it was a day that felt effortlessly authentic—a reflection of who we are and the life we’re building together.
Chelsee and Ryan were married on 16th April 2026 at Woodlands Hotel in Leeds. ‘We chose our wedding location because it felt like the perfect reflection of us as a couple. We wanted somewhere that was beautiful, welcoming, and practical for our guests, but most importantly, somewhere that felt special the moment we visited it. The setting created exactly the atmosphere we imagined for our day, and we could easily picture ourselves celebrating there with our family and friends. It combined everything we were looking for and made the decision feel effortless. Guest wise we had 46 day guests and 27 evening, so 73 in total. We planned our wedding in just under a year, which felt like quite an achievement given everything else that was going on! I’m a secondary school teacher, so much of the planning took place alongside the chaos of GCSE and A-level exam season, with all the marking and deadlines that come with it. To make things even busier, I was leading a ski trip to Italy the week before the wedding. Thankfully, I was incredibly lucky to have such a supportive husband-to-be, who was involved in every step of the planning process. It really was a team effort, and having someone to share the decisions, organisation, and excitement with made the whole experience so much more enjoyable. We were also fortunate to have an amazing venue team and photographer, who were incredibly supportive throughout the planning process. As first-time wedding planners, it was so helpful to have experienced professionals guiding us on what really needed our attention and what we didn’t need to stress about. Their advice helped us focus on the priorities, keep things in perspective, and enjoy the process rather than feeling overwhelmed by it.
Looking back, it was a busy year, but with the support around us, everything came together beautifully and made the day even more special. The motto I followed was ‘We are planning a marriage more than we are planning a wedding’.
8
Jul
2026
By Boho
Champagne, taupe, warm beige and soft brown have crept onto wedding mood boards everywhere, and they fit the boho look like they were made for it. If you’re planning a relaxed outdoor day and want your bridal party to blend with the setting instead of fighting it, neutrals are worth a proper look. Here’s why these shades photograph so beautifully and how to make them work for your group.
Why Do Neutral Bridesmaid Dresses Work So Well?
photo by Briana Nolan – full wedding here
Why Earth Tones Suit Outdoor and Rustic Weddings
Neutrals borrow their colours straight from the surroundings. Dried grasses, sandstone, weathered timber and late summer light all sit in the same warm family, so a bridal party in taupe or soft brown looks like part of the scene instead of a bright interruption in it. That’s exactly the effect most boho and rustic couples are after.
These shades also handle changing light really well. A barn, a field at golden hour or a woodland clearing will all throw different tones across the day, and neutrals shift gently with them. You won’t get the harsh clash you sometimes see when a bold colour meets dappled sunlight or a moody grey sky.
There’s a practical side too. Neutral dresses tend to suit a wider mix of hairstyles, accessories and what the groomsmen are wearing, so the whole party hangs together without much effort. It’s a calm, grown-up palette that lets the flowers and the venue lead.
photo by Nathalia Frykman Photo – full wedding here
7
Jul
2026
By Boho
I have a real treat for you today with this stunning styled shoot, that involves a whole host of super talented wedding suppliers.The shoot took place on 21st April 2026 at Ashley Court in Tiverton, Devon, and was the brain child of Janie from The Lucky Sixpence and Tara and Nigel at Ashley Court. The shoot was put together to showcase Ashley Court as a brand new wedding venue, but was done with the intention of showing how weddings can be ethical, sustainable while being accessible to everyone. Here is where smaller, quieter weddings come into their own, where they can bring in vintage elements naturally, not forced, to mirror the thoughtful and exquisite flowers and decoration. This is a truly beautiful styled shoot, bringing with it much inspiration, allowing couples to be authentic as individuals.
An Art Nouveau inspired wedding in the Spring. Sustainable, ethical and inclusive.
6
Jul
2026
By Boho
Happy Monday everyone! and welcome to another fun packed week on the blog. Today I am bringing you another edition of my colour special in Boho Pins. Last time we looked at red weddings so today I thought we could focus on white weddings. It had always been a tradition that no one could wear white to a wedding apart from the bride, well those days are gone, now white is an ever popular colour for bridesmaids, largely due to when princess Catherine married prince William and her sister wore that stunning bridesmaids dress. Also her use of white in her bouquet and also the other wedding flowers brought a resurgence of white flowers being used for years after. When white is used in weddings it brings a modem, clean look to any decoration. It is simple, un fussy and incredibly classy and elegant. Here’s a few of my favorite uses of white from past weddings I’ve featured on the blog.
photo by Photos by Mkay – full wedding here
photo by Ana Parker – full wedding here
photo by Rock and Love Weddings – full wedding here
